The Background

I guess I'm more tolerant than most when I ask "How many lies are enough?" You see I have a boyfriend that simply can't be trusted. When you're in a relationship you learn to tolerate and love the other person for all of their foibles and embrace them. But sometimes the other person just pushes a little too far.

Sure I've told little white lies to my boyfriend. I've been out drinking when I said I wasn't. I've been at the track betting when I said I wouldn't gamble. But I make a point of always being exactly where I say I am. If I'm at the pub then I announce, with pride, that I'm at the pub and all sundry should come and join me. The drunker I get the more insistent I become that people should come and join me but that's beside the point here. My lies aren't important to the core or fabric of a relationship.

The point is my boyfriends lies are. He cheats, quite regularly, and denies all. He has multiple profiles on various websites so if I login to look at him he can say he wasn't on. But the reality was that he hooked up under another name.

Over the coming days I'm going to go outline what I know, what I suspect and put the facts out there for all to see. No names or profiles will be published and I'll alter things but I'm sure you'll all get the point.

Now where do I start.......